The Hidden Answer
By, Allison McFatter
One significant
theme of therapy is recognizing and understanding a client’s ‘answer’, or how
the client has adapted to a problem. In understanding what influenced the
client to respond to a problem as he/she did, the therapist can better understand
how the client has learned to cope with challenges, and why the coping
technique makes sense to the client. In understanding the client’s perspective,
therapy can then aim to find a positive solution to the original problem – the
problem that led to the ‘answer’ in the first place.
Let’s say that
someone comes to therapy to quit drinking. The drinking might be assumed to be
the problem, but would quitting really
be the end-all solution? What would happen when alcohol is taken away?
Drinking is often a coping method
(the answer) to deal with an underlying problem. Taking alcohol away without
addressing the original problem that led to the drinking will leave the client
stranded in the same predicament, but now their learned coping method is
forbidden.
Therapy that does not take into
account the multi-layers in human behavior misses how drinking might play an
adaptive role in the client’s life. The alcohol, while causing problems in
itself, is being utilized as a tool to solve an underlying problem. If therapy
focused on the underlying problem, the need for alcohol would dissolve once the
original problem was no longer an issue.
Further thought: What do you think informs the
creation of a person’s ‘answer’?
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